The overwhelm. The burnout. The feeling that you've lost yourself somewhere along the way.
You've been trying to fix your career, your relationships, your health, your time.
But what if the real problem is simpler than you think?
It's your relationship with yourself. And when that relationship heals, everything else shifts.
âś“ You're constantly overwhelmed, even when you've "done everything right"
âś“ You feel burned out, but rest doesn't seem to help
âś“ You've lost touch with who you really are underneath all the roles you play
âś“ You're tired of pretending everything is fine when it's not
✓ You've tried therapy, meditation, self-help books—and still feel stuck
âś“ You achieve things but never feel satisfied or "enough"
âś“ You're exhausted from being your own harshest critic
Here's what no one tells you: You can't self-care your way out of this.
Because self-care treats the symptoms. Bubble baths and meditation apps help you cope. But they don't address the root cause.
The root cause is your relationship with yourself. And until that relationship heals, nothing else truly changes.
Think about it: You have a problem at work. A challenge in your relationship. You're not taking care of your health. You never have time for yourself. Money feels stressful.
That's at least five problems, right?
But here's what changes everything:
What if those aren't five separate problems? What if they're all symptoms of ONE core problem: the quality of your relationship with yourself?
When that relationship is fractured—when you're constantly criticizing yourself, betraying your own needs, abandoning your truth to please others—every other area of your life reflects that fracture.
Fix the ONE relationship. Watch the 99 symptoms shift.
That's what Self-Reset is designed to do: Give you one focused day to heal the relationship that changes everything else.
This isn't another workshop where you leave inspired but nothing changes. This is a carefully designed one-day immersive experience that gives you clarity, tools, and a new way of relating to yourself.
How do you sabotage your own success without even realizing it? You'll discover the specific ways you get in your own way—and more importantly, why you do it. This awareness alone changes everything.
Self-love isn't selfish. It isn't narcissistic. And it doesn't require hours of daily rituals. You'll learn the critical difference between self-care (treating symptoms) and self-love (healing the root cause).
True authenticity isn't about "just being yourself" or dropping all filters. It's about ending self-betrayal—those subtle moments when you abandon your truth to meet others' expectations. You'll see exactly where this happens in your life.
It's easy to love yourself when things are going well. But what about when you fail? When you disappoint yourself? That's when you need your own support most. You'll practice tools to become your own loyal ally, especially in tough moments.
Your life doesn't change in a seminar room. It changes at home, at work, in everyday moments. You'll leave with simple, practical tools that work in real life—not just when you're feeling inspired.
Knowledge + Experience + Reflection. Knowledge alone doesn't change you. Experience without processing can leave you stuck. Self-Reset combines all three to create lasting transformation.
Meditation apps treat anxiety. Therapy processes past trauma. Productivity hacks manage time. All helpful—but all treating symptoms. Self-Reset heals the relationship causing those symptoms in the first place.
No toxic positivity. No "just love yourself more" platitudes. Kristina's no-BS approach means you get real tools for real life—built for intelligent, skeptical people who've tried everything else.
Not another 6-week program you'll abandon. One intensive day solving the ONE problem at the root of everything else. Then you take the tools home and your real life begins to change.
You'll be surrounded by people who understand what you're going through. Mindvalley events attract a special kind of community—caring, growth-oriented people who support your transformation long after the event ends.
Each phase includes immersive exercises and curated reflection to help you process and integrate what you're learning. This isn't about inspiration that fades by Tuesday—it's about tools that become part of how you live.
Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani is the co-founder of Mindvalley, reaching over 20 million people worldwide with personal transformation. She's a WSJ #1 bestselling author, internationally acclaimed speaker, and someone who deeply understands what it means to be at war with yourself.
Raised in Soviet-era Estonia under oppressive conditions, Kristina spent years navigating restrictive norms and expectations—even as she built one of the world's premier personal development platforms. Her conditioning persisted through her greatest successes until she made a choice: to forge a life aligned with her true self.
Today, after 20+ years in personal transformation, she helps thousands of people end self-betrayal and reclaim their authentic power. Her book, Becoming Flawesome, became a #1 bestseller on The Wall Street Journal, USA TODAY, and Amazon.
Why Kristina Is the Right Guide for This Journey:
"She is very authentic and doesn't have an agenda. I was giving her a standing ovation, because she is really a beautiful powerful speaker."
"I have rarely seen a speaker moving the audience with such depth and authenticity. She told the truth in a way that was riveting—she had people crying, on their feet. They were so moved and inspired."
"She was so incredibly authentic. I can only imagine the amount of courage that must have taken. She connected with the audience in unbelievably strong ways simply because she was sharing real stories from her life."
Self-Reset is designed around three core phases of transformation, each building on the last to create lasting change. This isn't a lecture—it's an immersive experience where Knowledge + Experience + Reflection come together.
10:00 AM - 12:00 PM EET
Do you really love yourself? Or do you only love yourself conditionally—when you "deserve" it? We'll start by cutting through the facade and finding clarity about the true state of your relationship with yourself. This is where honest self-assessment begins.
1:00 PM - 3:00 PM EET
What's the difference between self-love and narcissism? Between self-care and coping? In this phase, we'll dive deep into your beliefs and perceptions about yourself—and help you reprogram the limiting patterns that make authentic self-love feel impossible or selfish.
4:00 PM - 6:00 PM EET
You'll learn and practice powerful tools to make self-support your default state—not an emergency kit you only reach for during crisis. Imagine what becomes possible when you stop fighting yourself and redirect all that energy into what truly matters to you.
3:15 PM - 3:45 PM EET (Optional)
Join Kristina for an intimate book signing session. Every ticket includes a signed copy of her bestselling book Becoming Flawesome. This is your chance to connect with her personally and deepen your experience of the day.
Throughout the day, you'll participate in immersive exercises and guided reflection sessions. This structure is intentional: it transforms powerful insights into practical new ways of living that continue long after January 18th.
Before diving into self-love work, you'll learn foundational skills that accelerate personal growth in any area of life. These are the building blocks that make all future transformation easier.
Knowledge alone doesn't change anything. Your life changes when your perception changes—when you see, interpret, and react to the world in a new way. Experience brings knowledge from your head into your heart.
Experience without a framework to process it can leave you broken. You'll learn how to turn challenging experiences into empowering insights—this is what rewires your brain for lasting success.
Your life doesn't change at an event. It changes at home, at work, in mundane everyday moments. You'll get practical tools designed to work in real life—not just when you're feeling inspired.
Kristina is known for her unapologetic honesty. She drops pretenses, admits when things don't look right, and engages even the most skeptical participants with critical thinking and scientific approaches.
Mindvalley events attract extraordinary, growth-oriented people. Your chances of lasting transformation increase exponentially when you have a caring community to support you through the journey.
Tallinn, Estonia's capital, is one of Europe's best-kept secrets. Imagine a cozy city with pristine air, a relaxed atmosphere, sophisticated restaurants, and a medieval Old Town that looks like a fairytale brought to life.
The city center is never more than 15 minutes from anywhere—close to the airport, train, and ferry terminals. This makes Tallinn ideal for a transformative weekend getaway without complex logistics.
And in January, Tallinn has a special kind of magic: quiet streets, winter charm, and the perfect atmosphere for deep inner work.
For recommendations on where to stay, eat, and explore during your visit, check out Visit Tallinn's official portal or follow @VisitTallinn on Instagram.
€159
(Early Bird rate | €209 after these sell out)
Everything you need for transformation:
âś“ Full-day access to Self-Reset experience
âś“ All three transformation phases
âś“ Immersive exercises & reflection sessions
âś“ Networking during coffee breaks
âś“ Signed copy of Becoming Flawesome
âś“ Digital resources to take home
âś“ Access to book signing with Kristina
€259
(Early Bird rate | €309 after these sell out)
Everything in Regular, PLUS:
âś“ Premium seating in the front rows
âś“ Fast-track registration (no waiting)
âś“ Private evening event with Kristina
âś“ Exclusive bonus video & audio content
âś“ Special VIP welcome gift
âś“ Priority access to future events
âś“ Deeper connection & intimate setting
We understand that life is unpredictable. You don't need to be 100% certain right now—just say "maybe" and secure your spot.
Full refund available up to 10 days before the event (January 8, 2026).
No stress. No awkward conversations. No questions asked. Just email us and you'll receive a full refund.
Why do we offer this? Because after 20+ years in personal transformation, we know your peace of mind matters just as much as your growth. We want you to feel safe taking this step.
For refunds, simply email: support@kristinamand.com
Your own signed copy of Becoming Flawesome, Kristina's WSJ #1 bestseller. Take the wisdom home and continue your transformation journey.
Meet like-minded people during networking breaks. The connections you make here often become lifelong friendships and support systems.
Leave with specific exercises and practices you can use immediately. Digital resources will be available on the Mindvalley platform for ongoing support.
Optional book signing session during the break. Connect with Kristina personally, ask questions, and make your experience even more meaningful.
What's NOT included: Accommodation, travel expenses, and personal incidentals. You're responsible for booking your own hotel and getting to Tallinn. (The good news? The city is compact and easy to navigate!)
What if it's time to heal the ONE relationship that changes everything?
You deserve to feel at peace with yourself.
Not just when things are going well—but always.
Especially when life gets hard.
January 18, 2026 | Tallinn, Estonia | One day to transform your most important relationship
One day: January 18, 2026, from 10:00 AM to 6:00 PM EET. Plus an optional book signing session during the break. That's the complete commitment.
Absolutely. Kristina is known for engaging skeptics with critical thinking and science-backed approaches. This isn't woo-woo or New Age fluff—it's honest, practical work on the relationship that impacts everything else in your life.
Those approaches often treat symptoms: anxiety, stress, relationship problems, time management issues. Self-Reset addresses the root cause—your relationship with yourself. When that foundational relationship heals, the symptoms naturally shift.
We offer a full refund up to 10 days before the event (January 8, 2026). No questions, no hassle, no awkward explanations needed. Simply email support@kristinamand.com and your refund will be processed.
Yes. Tickets can be transferred to a family member or friend. Just email support@kristinamand.com at least one week before the event to arrange the transfer.
It depends on your nationality. Estonia is part of the Schengen Area, so many visitors don't need a visa for short stays. Check the official requirements at Estonia's government website.
Yes! Every ticket includes a pre-signed copy of Becoming Flawesome. If you'd like a personalized message or want Kristina to sign your own copy, join the Meet & Greet book signing session during the break (open to all ticket holders).
Both include the full Self-Reset experience. VIP adds: front-row seating, fast-track registration, a private evening event with Kristina, exclusive bonus content, and a special welcome gift. Choose VIP if you want deeper access and a more intimate experience.
We recommend staying in or near Tallinn's Old Town for the full experience. The city center is compact and walkable. Check Visit Tallinn for accommodation recommendations and local tips.