Listen to what you're saying to yourself right now.

Chances are, you're being cruel. Critical. Unforgiving. And you don't even notice it anymore.

You think you have 100 problems in life: your career, your relationships, your health, your time, your money.
But here's the brutal truth: You have ONE problem.

The relationship with yourself.
And every other problem? It's just a symptom.

End the War With Yourself →

January 18, 2026 | Tallinn, Estonia | One-day immersive experience

Self-Reset Event Experience

Do This Right Now:

Think about the last mistake you made.

Now notice what your inner voice said about it.

Would you EVER talk to someone you love the way you just talked to yourself?

If not, why do you allow yourself to be treated this way?

You're exhausted. Burned out. You've lost touch with who you really are underneath all the roles you play.

You've tried meditation apps. Self-help books. Maybe therapy. And still, the overwhelm doesn't stop.

Because no one told you the real problem: You're in an abusive relationship. With yourself.

What if everything changes when you fix ONE relationship?

Self-Reset is a one-day immersive experience that does what no book, app, or therapy session has done: It reveals how you betray yourself every single day—and gives you the tools to stop.

The Self-Reset Promise:

By the end of January 18th, you will:

✓ See exactly how you sabotage your own success (and why)
✓ Understand the difference between self-care and self-love (they're not the same)
✓ Break up with self-betrayal—without fanfare or drama
✓ Learn to love yourself when you're LEAST lovable (that's when it matters most)
✓ Walk away with practical tools that work at home, not just in a seminar room

Why This Works When Everything Else Failed

1. No Spiritual Bypass

Kristina's no-BS approach means no platitudes, no toxic positivity, no "just love yourself more" nonsense. This is the real inner work you've been avoiding.

2. Science + Experience

Knowledge alone changes nothing. This isn't a lecture—it's an immersive experience designed to rewire your brain through the three pillars: knowledge, experience, and reflection.

3. One Day, One Focus

Not another 6-week program you'll abandon. One intensive day to solve the ONE problem causing all your other problems. Then you take the tools home and your real life changes.

4. Built for Skeptics

If you're rolling your eyes at "self-love" talk, good. Kristina is known for engaging even the most vehement skeptics. She'll earn your trust with critical thinking, not fairy dust.

The 5 Shifts That Change Everything

1. Stop Sabotaging Your Own Success

The hard truth: Your problems in business, relationships, and health aren't external. They're symptoms of your fractured relationship with yourself. We'll show you how to shift perspective and finally see light on the other side.

2. Stop Fighting for Time

Self-love isn't a ritual or daily practice that requires time. It's a relationship. You'll learn the critical difference between self-care and self-love, and stop feeling guilty about "not having time."

3. Understand What Self-Love Actually Is

Worried about becoming selfish or narcissistic? Good news: Narcissism isn't too much self-love—it's a distortion of it. You'll learn how to be your most loyal cheerleader AND your best support, no matter what life throws at you.

4. Break Up With Self-Betrayal

True authenticity isn't about "dropping filters" and being rude. It's about giving up self-betrayal. You'll discover exactly how you betray yourself every day—and how to stop this destructive pattern civilly, without fanfare.

5. Love Yourself When It's Hardest

Right now you might rate your self-love at 7 or 8. But what about when you fail? When you disappoint yourself? That's when you need your own love most—and when it's hardest to give. We'll teach you how.

⚠️ EARLY BIRD PRICING: Only 40 tickets left at €159 | Price increases to €209 after Early Bird sells out

Your Guide: Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani

Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani

Co-founder of Mindvalley. WSJ #1 Bestselling Author of "Becoming Flawesome." And someone who knows what it's like to be at war with yourself.

Kristina grew up in Soviet-era Estonia under oppressive conditions and restrictive norms. Even after building one of the world's premier personal development platforms (reaching 20 million people), she was still fighting herself inside.

Until she chose to forge a life aligned with her true self. Today, after 20+ years in personal transformation, she helps thousands stop betraying themselves and start living authentically.

Why Kristina?

  • #1 WSJ, USA Today, and Amazon bestseller with "Becoming Flawesome"
  • Creator of transformational programs: "10 Questions for Self-Love," "From Awesome to Flawesome," "Live By Your Own Rules"
  • Host of Mindvalley Book Club (leading authority on personal growth books)
  • Member of Forbes Coaches Council since 2019
  • Known industry-wide for her unapologetic no-BS approach to teaching

"She is very authentic and doesn't have an agenda. I was giving her a standing ovation, because she is really a beautiful powerful speaker."

— Marisa Peer, Best-Selling Author & Leading Celebrity Therapist

"I have rarely seen a speaker moving the audience with such depth and authenticity. She told the truth in a way that was riveting—she had people crying, on their feet. They were so moved and inspired."

— Katherine Woodward Thomas, NYT Best-selling Author & Licensed Therapist

As Seen On

Forbes Thrive Global Disrupt Magazine TV3.ee Grazia Magazine ETV
Kristina is the author of Becoming Flawesome Kristina speaking on the Mindvalley stage

One Day. Three Transformational Phases.

This isn't a conference where you sit and listen. This is an immersive experience built on the three pillars of lasting transformation: Knowledge + Experience + Reflection.

10:00 AM - 12:00 PM EET

Phase 1: Finding Clarity

Do you really love yourself? Or only when you "deserve" it? We start by cutting through the facade and finding clarity about your real relationship status with yourself.

1:00 PM - 3:00 PM EET

Phase 2: Reprogramming

Is it self-love or narcissism? Self-care or coping? We'll dive deep into your beliefs and help you reprogram the buggy software making self-love feel impossible.

4:00 PM - 6:00 PM EET

Phase 3: Empowering

You'll learn and practice powerful tools to make self-love your default state. Imagine redirecting all the energy you waste fighting yourself into something that actually matters. That's where you're headed.

3:15 PM - 3:45 PM EET (Optional)

Book Signing with Kristina

Meet Kristina personally and get your included copy of "Becoming Flawesome" signed. Make this experience even more memorable.

Each phase includes immersive exercises and curated reflection sessions. This isn't about inspiration that fades by Tuesday. This is about practical new ways of living that stick.

What Makes Self-Reset Different from Everything You've Tried

Evening event at MVU Tallinn

Build the Inner Framework First

Before diving deeper, you'll learn foundational skills to accelerate personal growth in ANY area of life. It's like learning the alphabet before reading—you need it no matter what comes next.

Full auditorium at Mindvalley University

Experience Changes Perception

Knowledge doesn't change anything. Your life changes when your PERCEPTION changes. Experience brings knowledge from your brain into your heart—that's what creates transformation.

Acrobatics on stage at MVU

Process to Rewire Your Brain

Experience alone doesn't work either. "What doesn't kill you" can leave you broken. You need a framework to process experiences in an empowering way. That's what rewires your brain for success.

Vishen during a seminar

Tools for Everyday Life

Your life doesn't change at an event. It changes at home, in the office, in mundane everyday circumstances. You'll get practical tools to take this wisdom back into your real life. And change it. For good.

University students connecting

No-Bullshit Approach

Kristina is known for dropping pretenses and admitting when things don't look right. Her natural inquisitiveness and scientific approach engage even the most vehement skeptics.

Meet and greet with Kristina

Community That Gets It

Mindvalley attracts extraordinary people who understand transformation requires community. Your chances at lasting change are much greater with a caring, supportive community to lean on.

Why Tallinn? Because You Deserve Beauty.

Winter in Tallinn, Estonia

Tallinn is Europe's best-kept secret—a cozy capital with crispy-clean air, a relaxed vibe, and an Old Town that's a fairytale come to life. The city center is never more than 15 minutes away from anywhere (close to airport, train, ferry), making this the perfect destination for a transformative weekend.

Plus, January in Tallinn has a special magic: quiet streets, winter charm, and the perfect atmosphere for inner work.

For recommendations on where to stay, eat, and explore, check out Visit Tallinn.

Secure Your Seat Now

Signed copy of Becoming Flawesome included
EARLY BIRD PRICING: Last 40 tickets at this price

Regular Ticket

€159

(€209 after Early Bird sells out)

✓ Your seat at Self-Reset
✓ All immersive sessions & exercises
✓ Networking coffee breaks
✓ Signed copy of "Becoming Flawesome"
✓ Digital resources to take home
✓ Access to book signing session

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Safe Cancellation Policy

Still not 100% sure? That's okay—you don't need to decide right now. Just say "maybe" and secure your spot today.

Full refund available up to 10 days before the event (January 8, 2026). No stress. No awkward emails. No questions asked.

Why? Because after 20+ years in personal transformation, we know your peace of mind matters just as much as your growth.

For refunds, email: support@kristinamand.com

The Question Is Simple:

How much longer will you stay at war with yourself?

You've tried fixing the symptoms. The 100 problems.
What if it's time to fix the ONE problem?

January 18, 2026 | Tallinn, Estonia | One day to change everything

End the War. Secure Your Seat →

Questions You Might Have

What's the time commitment?

One day. January 18, 2026, from 10 AM to 6 PM EET. Plus an optional book signing session during the break. That's it.

Will this work for me if I'm skeptical about "self-love" stuff?

Especially then. Kristina is known for engaging skeptics. This isn't woo-woo—it's a no-BS, science-backed approach to fixing the relationship that matters most.

I've tried therapy, books, courses. Why would this be different?

Because those focused on symptoms (anxiety, burnout, relationship problems). This addresses the root cause: your relationship with yourself. Fix the ONE problem, and the other 99 symptoms shift.

What if I can't make it or change my mind?

Full refund up to 10 days before the event (January 8, 2026). No questions, no hassle. Email support@kristinamand.com and you're done.

Can I transfer my ticket to someone else?

Yes. Tickets can be transferred to family or friends. Email support@kristinamand.com one week before the event to arrange transfer.

Do I need a visa to enter Estonia?

Depends on your nationality. Check official visa requirements at Estonia's government website.

Is the book signing included?

Yes! Every ticket includes a signed copy of "Becoming Flawesome." If you want a personalized signature or want to bring your own copy for signing, join the Meet & Greet session during the break.

What's NOT included in the ticket?

Accommodation, travel, and personal expenses. You're responsible for booking your own hotel and getting to Tallinn. (But the city center is only 15 minutes from anywhere, so logistics are easy!)